An honest mistake

 

Maybe.

Might also be a bit of inexperienced stupidity.

I’ve been thinking about times when something I’ve done has led to something unexpected. Not judging the positives and negatives, just whether or not I should have known better.

Terry and I owned a house once. The property was surrounds by numerous trees, including dozens upon dozens upon dozens (upon dozens) of oaks. The annual autumn leave drop was ridiculous.

The first year we were there, we made the decision to clear out a few trees from the yard. They were already causing some headaches, and the damage potential from their location was pretty high. So, down came three large trees.

As we cleared the trees and raked up leaves, a decision needed to be made about where to move the debris. Outside the fence in the backyard were plenty of spots to use, so we grabbed tarps and wheelbarrows and rakes and more, then moved all of it into an area way out back.

A few weeks later, something occurred to me. We had basically built a glorious hotel for wildlife. Whether you want to consider logs, branches, leaves and other assorted natural cuttings as providing structure, safety and bedding or not, the reality is there weren’t a lot of places to convert into a den nearby before we dragged stuff over and set things up.

You could easily make the argument we had built a clubhouse for deer.

(By the way, where did clubhouses go? And, I can’t believe I may have to say this, but sure: A clubhouse is kind of like a cross between a shed and a treehouse, you use it for your group of friends to gather in but it’s on the ground so you don’t climb up a ladder. I actually went out to look and see if they were possibly a thing and I was just out of touch with kids building things and hanging out in the yard. When three of the first five results offered “clubhouse sandwiches” and a batch of recipes, I decided I didn’t need to dig into the question any more deeply. I had an answer. Not to where they went, just that they were gone.)

The deer in a clubhouse concept leads me to the real question here: How often do you come across unintended consequences while you’re doing something?

It doesn’t have to be a massive, multiday, yardwork project. Could just be that time you were washing the kitchen floor and had managed to trap yourself in a corner. The idea is that you made a decision, did the work, and then near the end (or a bit after completing everything) you realized you might have made a mistake. Maybe, just maybe, a brief pause to consider a few things at the start would have worked in your favor.

I get that this admission is going to label my age a bit in our wireless society, but the way some of my furniture is set up in my home is a direct result of separate choices. The previous owners had run wires for things like television cables, so we put things into our rooms based on where to place the televisions. I’m not sure that the previous owners understood they were deciding the future locations of generations of dressers, sofas and nightstands, but there you go.

(Another side note. If it just so happens that you are faced with a coaxial cable dilemma of sorts, and you decide you’re going to move things around, look before you drill. Another friend decided she would be changing the carpets in a few years. Told her husband he could move some things since the holes in the carpet wouldn’t be an issue for long. He picked the best place to drill two new holes in two of the bedrooms, grabbed the power tools and went to work. Turned out the hot water pipe to the dishwasher went right under one room, and the water pipe to the front-of-the-house spigot went right under the other room. In an impressive act that deserves credit despite the results, he hit both of the pipes, took a break for lunch, and found water spraying around the basement forty-five minutes later.)

The world of ambition is filled with good intentions. This does not mean the perfect arrival at expected results. And that’s not always the result of mistakes, problems or even stupidity. Sometimes, the deer just move in.

 

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