Outside my door

 

Maple tree in my front yard. Used to have a birch. Lived in places with dozens upon dozens of oaks surrounding the house. No palm trees.

Neighbors have some evergreens. Wide variety of those. No palm trees.

Spending some time in Florida over the years, I’ve noticed that just about every yard has a palm tree. Some short and full, others tall and wispy, but palm trees all over.

I was walking the dogs along a street in Florida when these and other assorted differences hit me in a moment of realization, where I recognized the differences I so often take for granted. And I blame the sidewalk for noticing it. See… well… ok…

It snows in the northeast United States. In some places, it snows a lot. Enough that there are special laws in cities and towns, rules in communities, and courtesies extended between friends and neighbors. Park here, clear that, help others.

While on my walk, I spotted a street sign that announced no parking on the street for a specific stretch. That got me thinking about how signs such as this, if around my house, usually involve a disclaimer that there are parking restrictions for snow removal. This is not an issue in Florida.

That moment of clarity connected with the sidewalk the dogs and I were following. Sidewalks are everywhere around here. More common, it feels, than in residential areas I’ve lived in for most of my life. As an added bonus, Florida properties, to my understanding, do not bring with them the responsibility for clearing a sidewalk in front of your house after a snow storm. You don’t have to shovel what doesn’t fall.

Many of the views and experiences I encounter in New York don’t even merit the slightest of consideration in Florida. You don’t stock tools in your garage to clear the driveway, and you don’t move your car to a different place so a plow can get down the edges of the roads.

Yet, I would argue, snow and palm trees are far from unusual considerations. Snow falling isn’t rare. Nor are palm trees. But in the right location, you won’t find a single dollar in a city budget allocated for snow removal. You won’t find rows of palm trees used as landscaping staples.

I wonder from time to time about things we take for granted that others would consider an amazing sight.

It applies to the way we live. The towering structures of wind farms are becoming a bit more widespread, but it wasn’t too long ago that you might be stunned to see them in your travels. Hop on Route 1 in the Florida Keys—or not far off it—and you’ll be treated to houses on stilts and pillars. Not exactly a norm from the houses of Montana.

It applies to natural wonders as well. The moose you might encounter in northern New Hampshire don’t often vacation in Arizona. Mountains here, ocean coastline there, thick forests and majestic canyons.

None of it rare or unusual as general subjects, and yet all potentially nonexistent outside your kitchen window.

In talking to many people, it becomes something that fades into the background. Open the door, see a palm tree. Here comes the snow, grab the hot cocoa. Nothing to see here, just everyday stuff, move along.

There is someone in the world that wants to experience snowfall because they never have. Someone that wants to have a rum drink with feet in the sand and a palm tree nearby. It’s not always as easy as opening the door.

So, the next time you step outside, take a look around. Try to notice a few of the things that you see so often they don’t even register with you. Not everyone gets to watch a rafter of turkeys cross the yard.

 

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